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Why doesn't life work for me?

Reasons why life (or certain areas) is not working for you, can vary greatly. Three very common reasons are fear, unwillingness to do what is required or simply a lack of know-how or skills. Another much-overlooked reason is curses that may work in your life due to a number of reasons.

Strongholds are typically negative beliefs or lies concerning a particular issue or anything that masters you. They prevent you from seeing or considering alternative solutions and keep you prisoner. The Good News is that "the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strongholds" (2 Cor 10:4). Take the Free Stronghold Diagnostic Survey to test if strongholds are keeping you prisoner in some areas of your life.

Three reasons why people ultimately end up looking for councelling, are mentioned below. Walking a distance with a Christian coach may open your eyes to other possibilities and re-position you to experience those ellusive breakthroughs. Make an appointment with me or with a Christian councellor you trust to help you with problem diagnosis.

Christian Life coach - Finances
Christian Life coach - Health
Christian Life coach - Relationships

FINANCES

If you answer 'yes' on even one of these statements you may do well to book a session for problem diagnosis:

  • 'Failure-on-the-brink-of-success'
  • Constant lawsuits or injustice in basic business deals
  • Those who are supposed to build a platform for success under you, fail you
  • Constant lack of resources to implement your ideas
  • Cannot accumulate wealth
  • Betrayal-from-within
  • Losing your capital which you should have used to make money

 

HEALTH

Medical science has made great strides in its effort to alleviate human suffering. Yet the accelerated pace of our modern society continues to take its toll on the bodies of men and women, producing sickness beyond a man's ability to help.

"The demands for sufficient doctors, hospitals, beds, and cures grow with increasing pressure, and many new drugs and medicines are creating new problems. The population explosion has caused problems of poverty, malnutrition, and epidemic disease that can only intensify the message that man needs a healer God. How the father nature of God must long for man to return to the security and simple faith of pure fellowship with Him, taking His Word as fact that can be fully trusted! ...Basically the Church has only one message: In all things, our Heavenly Father can be trusted to honor His Word." R. V. Bosworth

Beyond just the message of divine healing, the principles of faith are presented in a way whereby every Christian can discover and possess, through the benefits of Calvary, all that Adam lost.

RELATIONSHIPS

All units of people are social systems, in which we are in relationship with others and have a specific purpose. God created the family as the most intimate unit in which we learn roles, morals and how to love each other.

We carry those lessons (or lack of them) into every system we enter...school, work, friends, church. Learn more about how to have healthy Christian relationships in

  • Marriage
  • Parenting
  • The Family
  • With others
  • With God

Effective communication is the foundation of healthy, loving relationships. All human relating is through some form of communication. The root of most dysfunction in relationships is faulty communication and the root of intimacy is effective communication in which both parties feel heard, understood and accepted.

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